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Topic: it just so out of the blue

+Ducky !MwWb.dJjRc1 week ago #49,765

everything was going so well then he told me he's leaving
well I can't really cope

·Ducky !MwWb.dJjRc (OP) — 1 week ago, 55 seconds later[T] [B] #537,363

I didn't eat a full meal since thursday

·Ducky !MwWb.dJjRc (OP) — 1 week ago, 35 seconds later, 1 minute after the original post[T] [B] #537,364

also I sleep or lie down 90% of the day :) also i didnf shower since thursday

·Ducky !MwWb.dJjRc (OP) — 1 week ago, 1 minute later, 3 minutes after the original post[T] [B] #537,366

and I hope i die

+Syntax1 week ago, 32 minutes later, 35 minutes after the original post[T] [B] #537,369

@previous (Ducky !MwWb.dJjRc)

You will recover. Later look back on it and have a very different point of view

·Ducky !MwWb.dJjRc (OP) — 1 week ago, 1 hour later, 1 hour after the original post[T] [B] #537,371

@previous (Syntax)
> You will recover. Later look back on it and have a very different point of view

I wait for him

·Syntax1 week ago, 3 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[T] [B] #537,372

@previous (Ducky !MwWb.dJjRc)
Tis a long story for some other tyme re my multiple re-connects.

Any break up is like a serious surgery - Takes time to heal - So just give it time. In the mean time do not feel bad about feeling bad. It will get more better but just takes TIME

·Ducky !MwWb.dJjRc (OP) — 1 week ago, 3 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[T] [B] #537,373

@previous (Syntax)
> Tis a long story for some other tyme re my multiple re-connects.
>
> Any break up is like a serious surgery - Takes time to heal - So just give it time. In the mean time do not feel bad about feeling bad. It will get more better but just takes TIME

It's not fair though we weren't even fighting and I'm stubborn. I will wait. I have to see him Tuesday to get my stuff

·Syntax1 week ago, 7 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[T] [B] #537,374

@previous (Ducky !MwWb.dJjRc)

The no connect over the holidays may have been a hint. I once said no thanks to the invite to spend a holiday with a gals parents because I just did not see any long term point in a relationship with her - Then while she was gone I met a new gal and we connected with exchange of phone numbers and well when gal came back from holiday I broke it off. She later said she had a feeling things were not going all that well.

Being one of that age I am - Lots of relationships and lots of break ups - Most were on my part and I have friends that always tell me that I need to end it if if I am not serious because in the end I will hurt the gal - I DO NOT like hurting anyone I have made love with so it is not easy to end it.

·Ducky !MwWb.dJjRc (OP) — 1 week ago, 30 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[T] [B] #537,375

@previous (Syntax)
we have been friends he knows how I am and knew how I would be if we hooked up so why why cos now I'm hooked and I need him so why

·Syntax1 week ago, 8 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[T] [B] #537,376

@previous (Ducky !MwWb.dJjRc)

The why is one of the most key differences between male and female. When women fall they fall hard. They get hooked in much more so than a guy. So it is much harder for them to let go after it does not work out.

·Ducky !MwWb.dJjRc (OP) — 1 week ago, 27 minutes later, 3 hours after the original post[T] [B] #537,377

@previous (Syntax)
it was working out

·Syntax1 week ago, 10 minutes later, 3 hours after the original post[T] [B] #537,378

@previous (Ducky !MwWb.dJjRc)

From your point of view it was. From his maybe not so much. It is also the problem with sexual relationships. The gal may have no clue there is a problem cause well We guys can appear to be in totally happiness during the act. Because we are. Lets face it a great Orgasm is just GREAT - A relationship however requires more.

+The Asshole !j8WdfRT3xY1 week ago, 2 hours later, 6 hours after the original post[T] [B] #537,391

I still loves ya duckster, no matter what road you follow.

As syntax said, time heals all. I lost the woman I loved most in this world in 2014, and I thought all was well. Apparently it wasn't..... I was hurting for months. Now I look back and think "fuck that bitch," and all the while I hope her life is a living hell.

·Ducky !MwWb.dJjRc (OP) — 1 week ago, 1 hour later, 7 hours after the original post[T] [B] #537,393

@previous (The Asshole !j8WdfRT3xY)
> I still loves ya duckster, no matter what road you follow.
>
> As syntax said, time heals all. I lost the woman I loved most in this world in 2014, and I thought all was well. Apparently it wasn't..... I was hurting for months. Now I look back and think "fuck that bitch," and all the while I hope her life is a living hell.

fuck that cunt
this sucks cos we weren't even fighting
I just called him he was smiling and laughing
I miss his dumb stupid face

·The Asshole !j8WdfRT3xY1 week ago, 1 hour later, 8 hours after the original post[T] [B] #537,395

@previous (Ducky !MwWb.dJjRc)
Hey, we weren't fighting either. We were getting along great. I guess her heart wasn't in the same place as mine.

You'll miss his dumb stupid face, but it will pass hun.

·Ducky !MwWb.dJjRc (OP) — 1 week ago, 14 minutes later, 8 hours after the original post[T] [B] #537,396

@previous (The Asshole !j8WdfRT3xY)
he told me he just need time to, do this course and get it together,he isn't talking to girls, I just called him, he said stop being sad and treating it like goodbye. I don't wanna. he won't tell me to wait 4 him. I wanna
also he said we will keep in contact, okay I just dont get it

·The Asshole !j8WdfRT3xY1 week ago, 1 hour later, 10 hours after the original post[T] [B] #537,399

@previous (Ducky !MwWb.dJjRc)
Well........

I don't wanna be the one to say it, but you'll hear it eventually.....

"I need time to get it together....."

That's the same thing I told my ex wife in 2010. We both agreed tho, that splitting up would be best, so it was mutual. 2 months later, she wanted to get back together. I no longer felt what I used to, and I said those same words....... I haven't seen her since.


If it happens, I hope it works for you. If it doesn't, then it doesn't. There is no point in dwelling on it, and trying to change something you can't.

+Anonymous D 1 week ago, 1 day later, 1 day after the original post[T] [B] #537,426

@OP

Forget that punk..
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